This message is to be trusted: "If we indeed have died with Him, we will live with Him too. "If we patiently endure, we will reign with Him too. If we disown Him, He will disown us too. If we are unfaithful, He remains faithful, for He cannot prove false to Himself." (2 Tim 2.11-13)
Notice all of the ifs in this passage; life is about "if", isn't it? If turns to then, the acceptance of the condition creates the ultimate result.
Responding to the ifs of life is inevitable. What matters, then, is that we respond rightly to life's ifs.